Could your significant other do something so heinous, there's no way you could rationalize forgiving them? It seems an obvious question, yet women stay with wife-abusers, kid-abusers, even murderers (!), all of the time. Me, I don't bear grudges in a relationship—not for the cumulative little stuff. What we argued about last year isn't interesting to me. So in that regard, I'm forgiving. But for major betrayals, I'd be backing up the dump truck so fast, its beep-beep-beep would sound like a smoke alarm going off.
It's this slippery notion of "major" betrayal that inspires today's survey. Have at it. Addendum: I added gender. The responses seem to be polarizing on gender lines.